Purple Crystal Fringe Choker, Victorian Black Lace Necklace, Dark Romantic Gift for Her
$139 $111.20 USD (20% off)
Purple crystal fringe choker — a slim black lace band hung with a row of faceted purple drops, handmade one at a time by Nightshade Creations.
✦ 1 OF 1 — never remade, never restocked. This is the only one that will ever exist, so if it speaks to you, don't wait. ✦ Handmade in our studio and shipped worldwide with tracking — delivery typically takes about 2–3 weeks.
Most gothic chokers ask you to commit to the whole look. This one does not. It is a narrow band of black floral lace, barely wider than a ribbon, and everything dramatic about it hangs underneath: a fringe of faceted purple glass drops strung the full length of the band, swinging a little every time you turn your head.
At the throat sits an oval cabochon of deep violet, shot through with silver sparks like crushed glass, held in an ornate silver tone rope frame. A single purple teardrop hangs from it in a smooth bezel setting, falling just past the fringe.
It reads as jewelry rather than costume. That is the point. You can wear it to dinner, to a gallery, under a shirt collar at work, and it still belongs to you rather than to the occasion.
Details • Narrow black floral lace band with a scalloped edge • Oval violet sparkle cabochon in an ornate silver tone rope frame • Bezel set faceted purple teardrop at the center • Fringe of faceted purple glass drops along the full band • Secure lobster clasp with extension chain • Adjustable length: 27+8cm • Handmade and one of a kind
Symbolism Purple is the color Victorian mourning allowed last. After a year in unbroken black, a widow moved into half mourning — grey, mauve, amethyst — the shades that said the grief was still there but no longer hiding. Black lace and purple stone is that exact moment, worn at the throat.
Style Ideas Against bare skin with a V neck or an off shoulder top, where the drops have room to move and catch the light. Under a collar for something only you know about. With velvet, a black slip dress, or a dark academia layer of wool and silver.
Gift Idea For someone whose style runs dark but not loud — a partner, a goth best friend, anyone who has wanted a choker they could actually wear on a Tuesday. Good for a birthday, an anniversary, Halloween, or no reason at all. Arrives wrapped in a black organza pouch, ready to give.
✦ Custom orders welcome — want this in a different crystal color or a longer band? Message me and I'll handcraft your one-of-a-kind piece just for you. Color and length variations are made at no extra cost.
Some listing photos may be artistically enhanced for presentation purposes. However, product appearance remains true to item.
Handmade by Andrea in Israel. Ships worldwide. Free delivery on all orders. All materials vegan. Each piece is one-of-a-kind — when it sells, it’s gone.
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What Our Customers Say
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“The necklace is a little short, but that's my fault, I mis-measured my neck, but I can extend it myself, I have the tools, and my back won't show with my long hair anyway. It's very good quality, great communication, I'd be happy to purchase from them again.”
Verified purchase — August 2026“I got this gothic lace choker as an anniversary gift for my girlfriend, and she absolutely loved it. The quality is excellent. and the details are beautiful. It looks even better in person than in the photos. It arrived quickly and the seller was communicative and helpful throughout the process. If you are looking for a unique piece of jewelry or a special gift, I highly recommend this shop.”
Verified purchase — January 2026“Seller was amazing! Product was as described and arrived on time. Highly recommend.”
Verified purchase — March 2026“seller was quick in response, kept me up to date on everything and even contacted USPS after it was staying in place for over a ten days.”
Verified purchase — March 2026“seller was quick in response, kept me up to date on everything and even contacted USPS after it was staying in place for over a ten days.”
Verified purchase — March 2026“Exactly as described. A beautifully made choker. My wife loves it! Customer service was extremely helpful and attentive.”
Verified purchase — April 2026Shop rating: 5.0 / 5 based on 6 verified reviews.